It's all about you

 Life keeps on making no sense but actually you know what? You can make life to make sense. Does that make any sense? It's you who give sense to your life. Mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell which everyone knows. And every cell has a mitochondria. Likewise your thoughts are what is powering you and the thoughts of all people together is running the world. So you know your thoughts matter. You are one person but you influence people around you. You might be home for some. You might be the one who makes people laugh around you. You might be many people's dreams and hopes. Those are actually not a burden or any kind of pressure, those are trust that people have on you. (Even when we say don't trust too much, don't depend on anyone too much, we tend to do that so often. What we can really do is to not expect too much and not expecting anyone or anything to complete you. You are an individual and you are independent.) Don't give away your essence to anyone. There will be times when we need to depend on others. Co-dependency is another important aspect. We don't need anyone to complete us but we need people in our lives to survive. There might be people who we really want in our lives. Keeping those people and choosing you over everything is how you find your happiness. 

When we learn to control our emotions, be it sadness, anger or any kind of emotion, there is a chance, even if we are not trying, that we forget how to be really happy. We might start faking laughter at first and then we forget how to laugh from within. Expressing things help you in such a good way. Let out everything even if it's anger, if it doesn't hurt anyone, you can break a bottle or two or tear a book (not that I recommend this but at times you can't just keep it all inside which is totally fine.. letting go is the whole point right?).

Learning to control your thoughts and let things be is actually what is going to help you. Stop bothering about the things you can't control and focusing on what you do have control over, which is you only and your happiness. You can be going through the worst situations, whatever be it, you have the choice to smile and be happy because your happiness is your responsibility and you are the one who have the power to destroy it. 

There might be people in your life who makes you happy and makes you want to live. But ultimately it's you who creates happiness for you or you are the one who should find happiness in things around you. You have everything you need. You just don't know yet. You are everything. You as a person has your own story to write and you have the power to choose whether to accept everything happening around you and be happy that you are standing up or to let yourself down and blame the situations around you.

There might be phases when you feel like nobody is there or times when you feel like you have everyone but nobody gets you and supports you when in reality there are people in your life who wants to support you in every way but you chose not to let them in. You feel like you're opening up to them and they don't care about your feelings but the actual thing being you are not opening up enough for them to get inside you and make you feel okay. Just try to let people in. You are not alone. Nobody is alone. Everyone has at least one person in their life whom they can lean on. But you should be brave enough to open your heart and talk. Don't try to hide and pretend you can do everything alone. May be that is indeed true but you know, you don't always have to do that. Solutions to every problem cannot be found, but solving your thoughts can help.

We have a control over everything in our lives even when we say that I don't know what is happening, I don't know why all bad things are happening to me, Why are only bad things happening? I don't feel anything anymore, Everything around me is tiring, I feel like I'm carrying the weight of the world, so many phases in life ( All these are thoughts that I had, I know everyone can write things and its hard to practice, but I know for a fact that you all need to hear this today or maybe I did. Doesn't matter). Every person goes through these things and every person must have felt the same at least once in their life. It's natural. But there is one thing that you should always keep in mind and that being: don't give any power to these thoughts. Power is within you which you should be using to overcome these thoughts and phases and find happiness and peace. 

I might be repeating things but being happy is so important. Just don't let negativity consume you. Be happy because you are loved, you have people, you have a good life and you are here. You have a life ahead of you from which you don't know what to expect but sure enough if you try you can live happily. 

Be happy you all. I love you..You are loved..You are enough...:)

Ignore my mistakes. That was a quick spill of thoughts.